I can see both side of this "argument". I think Coco is stepping back a bit from his first rather-harsh reply. He seemed a bit more conciliatory in a later response.
Sure, he should be able to give some basic guidelines of player skills they are looking for (13+ in bigmen/guard skills, 6+ in all others, or something similar), but I don't think logging into that website occaisionally is too much to ask. I just did it, as I hadn't logged in there in months, Thankfully the userame and password were saved in my cache. Took a few minutes to look around. You can order the players by age, and then compare your players to the ones already in the database.
(http://bb-usa.netsons.org/login.php?refer=update)Does an off-site forum exist as well? Can't seem to find that.